PanResponder never clears the interaction handle

[Yupeng-li]

I noticed two issues in usePanResponders.tsx

1. volumePanResponder and seekPanResponder never clear the interaction handle created when responder was granted. Any code in InteractionManager.runAfterInteractions is blocked after changing volume or seek bar.
2. PanResponder.create was called repeatedly(hundreds and hundreds times) while video was playing or when changing volume.

The main reason is that the PanResponder.create is not wrapped in useMemo, so they are re-created every time when the VideoPlayer is refreshed.

I created a patch file to resolve this for now. https://gist.github.com/Yupeng-li/78d04099f0ee20bbf164c6d7e99eb2df